http://media.www.pacepress.org/media/st ... 6161.shtml
The article is slightly annoying as the majority of them on this subject are, but I LOVE LOVE Michelle Papandria's comments!!! I laughed when she talked about how men deal with housework, omg, I now understand my man much better!! And I know he's so wiped out from his day when he comes home and doesn't want to do housework (except cooking, it thrills him), and he's frustrated because he really wants to take care of me since I'm in so much pain and he feels like he's failing at it... But it's so true about the part that men are just not as detail oriented as we are!! I'm trying to teach him a few things about how to clean but he hates being told what to do of course, so I end up trying to live with a dirty environment, which sucks. Which is WHY I so want to get better!!!! I want to get more aids, lol. For the longest time, I just could not comprehend how such an intelligent and rational man would clean the way he did you know?? I guess he's not the only one and I'm glad to know he's definitely not gay, lol!!!
As for the fulfillment part, I'm so tired of people telling other people what to do and when they should be happy. I don't feel fulfilled at the moment because I want to take care of our home, I love it, it's one of my passions. I'm also getting annoyed at the SAHM forums as all of them are negative in tone. I think it's quite difficult to be a homemaker these days...
